The Center for Children's Justice - Pennsylvania Chapter

i read your so called cry me a river letter, and let me tell yoou there are fathers out there that dont deserve a relatiion ship with there kids, and yet mothers like me make it possible for it to happen that they do get the chance no matter what because we feel sorry for yoour poor excuse asses!!! it is your obligation to have a relationship with your child not oours!! so the relationship didnt work does that include your kids too? no!!! i am on both sides of this and yet i find it so ironic that there is such a page that only hears the one side. My ex husband was a pure ass and yet i coould only take it for 8 yrs that was way too many then. Isupported all of us cas he would not work so i never got to see my child do alot cas i worked all the time, but yet i'm expected to feel sorry for his ass cas he cant make it? ya right your messed up and so is the system. I take the money and put it towards my kids needs yet i'm told i'm leaching off of him!! i work a fulltime job and have for 25yrs, i dont need the money from him but i feel he helped bring this kid in the world and he knows of his wrong doings in our marriage he should have to pay to help make sure our child gets what he needs, or am i suppose to say the hell with it go live your llife and we will do just fine with out your help and yet you can see hiim any time you want and do what ever you please? dont think so!!!!!! you see its men like you who make women like us love to take your sorry asses to work cas all you think about is how we want your money and yet some do but before yoou go and accuse all women of being the same you better get your facts right cas not all of us are some of us ask that all we want is for oour ex's to have a relationship with there child and yet they cant seem to manage it. Am i pissed yes. it's best you get a hold of life and if your not having a relationship with yoour child the get off your ass and do somthing about it, it's not the ex your hurting it's the child!!!